It has been unofficial blog policy for some time now that men are not welcome here. Very rarely, I let a male comment. Starting now, I am officially letting all the women here know that men are now barred from commenting on this blog. I had made a few exceptions when the man was extremely over-the-top kind or in cases when by the time I logged on, there was already a string of comments from women talking to him and I didn’t want to lose their hard work in replying.
However, from now on, if you see a man commenting here, please do not respond to him. When I log on again I will remove the comment.
We need to be able to speak to each other without a man in the room and we have that right. This is already a space that can be seen by them. They do not need to participate, too.
Just having one around changes our comfort levels and how we speak to each other, what we choose to share, etc. This is not the place for fearing or being uncomfortable around males. If you see a NICE one comment, you can link him to THIS post until I get back to delete his comment. IF YOU WANT. Otherwise, just wait. I’ll deal with him asap.
I will also go through some of the old posts and remove any male comments I see. I have not wanted to mess up YOUR comments, so I left some up if you were in a discussion, but it annoys me that they are in my/our space, so they need to go.
Okay that’s it. Happy super dark moon! Here she comes!